Archive for January, 2007

人生要找的四个人

Sunday, January 21st, 2007

人生就是为了找寻爱的过程, 每个人的人生都要找到四个人。

第一个是自己,
第二个是你最爱的人,

第三个是最爱你的人,
第四个是共度一生的人.

首先会遇到你最爱的人,然後体会到爱的感觉;
因为了解被爱的感觉,所以才能发现最爱你的人;
当你经历过爱人与被爱,学会了爱,才会知道什么是你需要的,
也才会找到最适合你,能够相处一辈子的人。

但很悲哀的,在现实生活中,这三个人通常不是同一个人;

你最爱的,往往没有选择你;
最爱你的,往往不是你最爱的;
而最长久的,偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的,
只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。

你,会是别人生命中的第几个人呢?   

没有人是故意要变心的,他爱你的时候是真的爱你,
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了,
他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你;
同样的,他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。 

当一个人不爱你要离开你,
你要问自己还爱不爱他,
如果你也不爱他了,千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开;
如果你还爱他,你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐,
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起,绝不会阻止,
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福,就表示你已经不爱他了,
而如果你不爱他,你又有什么资格指责他变心呢? 

爱不是占有,
你喜欢月亮,不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里,
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。

让你爱一个人,也可以用另一种方式拥有,
爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆,   

如果你真爱一个人,就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好,也爱他的坏:
爱他的优点,也爱他的缺点,
绝不能因为爱他,就希望他变成自己所希望的样子,
万一变不成就不爱他了。   

真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的,
你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏,你都希望这个人陪著你;
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守,也就是没有丝毫要求。
毕竟,感情必须付出,而不是只想获得;
分开是一种必然的考验,
如果你们感情不够稳固,只好认输,
真爱是不会变成怨恨的。   

茫茫人海中,你遇见了谁?谁又遇见了你…..

被爱是幸福

Sunday, January 7th, 2007

有人说:“被爱是幸福”。
不过,我倒是觉得凡事都有双方面的。
被人爱是种幸福,但当你被一个你不爱的人
所爱往往会成为一种
压力。

<I strongly agree with that.It’s true, somehow girls
tend to feel bad / remorse/ guiltly/sorry when they
see those guys who love their so much will end up
recieving the ‘Rejection Notice’ from them.>

爱情是种折磨。它比其它科目都来得更深奥。
<Yes, I strongly agress with this statement. I never pass this ’subject’ in life.>

爱是没有时间、人物、地点的限制。
它要来的时候,谁也挡不住。同样的,当它要
溜走时也没人留得住它。

<Love is a rush of wild wind,
the scent of a summer rose,
A whistle blowing down the distant track
and when it goes, it goes.>

爱并不需要理由。
当你爱上一个人,你病不会介意对方的
身份、地位和过去。
或许身边的朋友们都会认为你傻,
但爱情就是没任何道理可言。
这可能就是大家所谓的
爱情是盲目的吧!

<Teen all are blind when it comes to love.And we
always failed to explain why we love someone.>

爱是种很虚幻的东西。
没有人可以教你.
它是需要你自己亲自去感觉与了解。

<No lecturer will ever offer a ‘LOVE’ lesson
because "LOVE" is something that we should
experiece it ourselves, and in our own way.>

当你爱上一个人时,
你的喜怒哀乐江水对方的心情牵动。

<Well, i guess so. Especially what you edit in your
msn’s personal message.It tells everything and
reveal your feeling.>

当你爱上一个人时,就该勇敢地向对方表白。
成功与否是不知之数,但至少让对方
知道你的感觉。

<It’s pretty easy to encourage your friends to do so
but when it happened to you, yourself, you will
realise eventually that it’s not easy at all. It
requires lots of courage in doing it.>

爱往往会让人终身遗憾,因为
把感情常在心里不说就永远不知道
对方的心意。

<That’s when we should apply the word ’sweat’!
and end up drying your tear with lonely-ness. Love
is nothing to be shy of, express your feeling to the one you love
before it’s too late for even a ‘Good Bye’ greet.>

爱有自私和无私之分。
真心相爱的在爱情里就该自私点。
相爱的人不该因外面的种种困难与阻碍就
轻言放弃。
必须知道在这些问题与阻碍后面等著你的是
幸福。

<’Never give up’!, ya,of course we are so familiar
with this but how many relationship will actually
work out fine if no party choose to take the first
move. >

轻易在爱情里画上句号的人是懦夫。相爱就该
共同牵手去创造幸福的未来。

<Love doesnt sit there like a stone. It has to be
made like bread;remade all the time,made new.>

一厢情愿的爱上一个心已有所属的人,
就该中心的祝福对方。只要对方幸福快乐,
你也会感到开心,因为爱不一定要占有。

<It’s so sad that one has to dry up her own tear
withour love,but have to face it though and accept
the truth .>

有些人的爱并非不能长生厢守但它带给你无限
美好的回忆。一些人在分手后感到伤
心、难过。这些事情都是难免的,毕竟人是有
感情的。但凡事都要看开。

<To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not
difficult;our human loneliness is cause enough.But
it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade
through whose steady presence one becomes
steadily the person one desires to be.>

千万别不相信真爱,你会觉得这世界真美妙。
<We always believe that there’s true love whenever
we have met the one we truely love. But we tend to
claim: ‘Lossing hope in love’ , whenever we faced
difficulties in love.>

祝大家能找到真爱
<Best of luck in love & Happy Ever After>

One Day kena 3 Wedding Saman!

Friday, January 5th, 2007

Today is the day i received the most Wedding Invitation Cards day of my life. Just a short few hours, i received 3 Wedding Invitation cards. Haizzz. This month really have to squeeze myself become money safer. Have to go and eat cheaper foods. Ha ha.. Need to give 3 Ang Pows this month. Even my OT also can’t cover the Ang Pow. Ha Ha..

So fast today is Friday, yeah! But tomorrow need to work swing shift again. Hopefully there is not much ticket on tomorrow swing shift. hehe.. Then i can snake king awhile..pss pss pss… :P

By the way, my newly 4-in-1 Cubicle already setup. Seems like the cubicle is smaller than previous. Haizzz. Whole Wednesday just setting up back my new cubicle. All my stuffs really cannot fit in this SMALL CUBICLE. This is not so call Upgrading Cubicle, is Downgrading Cubicle for a smaller working place. Not even have a place for you to put your own stuffs.

1st day of 2007

Monday, January 1st, 2007

Happy New Year to all of my Friendster List friends!!! Hope everyone live happily and peacefully!!!

This is the 1st day of 2007. Hmmm what shall i blog today, haha.. last night me and Marco Teh countdown, both of us calculate wht is the age this year. What we found out is "OLDMAN" liao.. What to do. Sad also have to pass a day, Happy also have to pass a day. Rather choose Happily and crazily pass everyday…

Me just wake up not long ago, as this morning worked till 7am. haizz.. WORK! WORK! WORK!.. Thts my life. Jabil = Jail. Everyday have to work till u drop. Thts y tomorrow i will not going to work. Better sit back at home rest a day. But have to waste 1 Annual Leave. Me long time din have off day. Nearly 7 days a week, 30 days a month, 365 days a year, also working. Where is my restday?? My restday will be on MC, thts mean work till i sick like HELL!